What's the journey? To Enjoy it!

Getting the Right Focus...

This is very important... as to say CRUCIAL to one's life

This is a factor that can help 'constantly improving', which is one of the main aspects of my life I'm looking forward to have...

Gonna quote the David DeAngelo Interview with Stephen Special Report:

"Don't get too obsessed with learning how to meet women.

But DO get obsessed with having a great life.

THAT is the key."

Wow! What an excellent change of focus. For example, I've started going to mini-seminars; I'm probably going to a 1 or 2 day seminar which is going to be held this weekend.

I'm looking forward to see great acomplishments happening after this change of mentality!

I have to put this thought out so it gets more solid in my life...

Let's start with family. If you become rich, it does not matter, they might be happy for you that you got rich, but jealous 'cause they aren't; or they will be suspicious like 'where did you get that money?'. SOOoooooo thinking that anybody will approve you if you do X thing is a lost quest, BECAUSE they will have SOMETHING ELSE for you to do!!!

Friends? Well, if you go to China and travel around the world, it won't matter to them anyways, they take you as you are. If you stay at home all the time, it won't matter, they're your friends, you shouldn't be thinking what anybody will think of you if you accomplish X thing, or if you DO NOT accomplish anything AT ALL!

I'm gonna quote Vince Vaugh (Peter La Fleur) from the movie Dodgeball:

Peter La Fleur: I found that if you have a goal, that you might not reach it. But if you don't have one, then you are never disappointed. And I gotta tell ya... it feels phenomenal.

Or Donal Logue (Dex) from the movie The Tao of Steve:

Dex: Doing stuff is overrated. Like Hitler. He did a lot. But don't we all wish he woulda just stayed home and gotten stoned?

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Think about it. You parents, they will support you when you are down, and evenly when you're up. The same as with people who DO like you.

So, I can do whatever I want, people know I'm always on to something, they find it weird when I'm not. They would love me anyways if I don't get back to college and get a degree on Languages. Come on, if I do anything it's gotta, it's gonna be for me, because I enjoy it and I decided to do it to complement myself.

I agree, achieving stuff is overrated.

I have a family member who I have now come to realized he does accept me. I don't need to go do anything for him to feel respect for me, he already does; what I've noticed is he does what he can to see me doing something for my life, more about the economy, ya know?

Since some days i've been wanting to write about this, and I expect to get more clearer on this subject.

I want to sorround myself with the best people. An All-Star team of hand-picked people who are positive and share common interests with me.

About this, it's a great idea to get pictures of you with people you admire and are powerful.

How do I find these people? First thing that comes to mind is pursuing those things which are of your own interest, then begin making friends with some of them.

I want this to happen. I have the desire and I believe it is posible and will happen. It is already happening!

Sometimes I just get into bed, only to find my mind working out a lot of great ideas that I just go Get Up to write them down.

Today I starting reading the book "Don Quijote". I really want to read this, because there are elements which are useful on my own quest. Defining my reality, being who I wanna be are concepts that come to mind. Also, I can take some ideas, like waking up very early in the morning, like Don Quijote does.

So I read the first chapter on the bed, then it was very easy for me to fall to sleep!

Now, anytime I wanna get some rest cause I gotta wake up early in the morning, I'll just read a book!

Wonderful news in the GNU Linux world! Mandrake fusions with Conectiva!

The result of this fusion is a new distro name: MANDRIVA!

To top that off, there's been released the first milestone version of Mandriva called: Limited Edition 2005

This defines the ending of an era, and the beginning of a great, full of excitement one!

Check Out the First Distro Review here:



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Hey this is something really important and a real key for me...

I want to make male and female friends. I want to also be able to hand pick them and trash out the ones who do not fill my quota. Only positive and somehow constantly productive allowed! Today I heard some feedback on that, it's like: it's natural to socialize, you do not have to do anything special, just hang out!

I want a faster computer! a coleague told me about he might help me out with that

I want to travel more often. Let's say once a month. Idea: I could find a job that involves travelling often! Hey sounds great to me!!

I wanna speak russian! Hey this is something I've been sticking to for several years now. And I keep at it. I haven't given up at it, instead, I have now better info on how to get that done! And people, I ain't doin' nothin' if it aint no fun!!

I want Great shoes... some cool boots!!

I wanna keep a great haircut and not "lose it". It is my resposibility to keep my hair great.

I wanna play music with other musicians. I was chatting with someone about it.

Hey if you want something say it here!

Hace unos días me encontré un pedazo de información bastante impactante: es referente a la depresión y una manera muy positiva de verla. Aquí va:

"Si dejaramos de ver la depresión como una enfermedad y la reconocieramos como una oportunidad de cambio y crecimiento interno, contribuiríamos a mejorar nuestra calidad de vida y la del mundo"

He dicho!

Hoy miércoles fuí a una charla...

Estas fueron las cosas que más me impactaron:

"Para poder tener, da todo a todos"

"Para tener paz, enseña paz"

"Las ideas nunca abandonan su fuente"

"Compartir la idea causa que crezca y se fortalezca"

"Si tienes claro el propósito, los medios se te darán"

"Los problemas no van a desaparecer con la muerte"

"La vida está en la mente"

"Todo pensamiento produce resultados"

"Entregar y pedir la corrección"

"Yo soy espíritu"

"Todo lo que es verdadero no tiene límite"

"Mantener propósito firme"

"Flexibilidad en estrategias"

Investigar: Rey Salomón

"Enfócate en el propósito"

"Creer en lo que se esté haciendo para ser congruente"

"No pierdes lo que comunicas"

"Aquello que crees, Aquello que creas"

"La intención es muy importante"

Ejemplo: ¿Cuál es mi intención cuando hago abordajes?

Mi intención cuando hago abordajes es hacer sonreir, darles un rato agradable, darles alegría.

"Enseña lo que quieres aprender"

Just like 2 days ago, it's around 6.30 am. and I just can't help it but be inspired and curious. This is the time when the feeling that I got it, I got it, it's right here! I got it, I got a realization. And I'm getting many, yesterday was a day of breakthroughs.

This comes back to approaching a situation. Let's say for example a woman. I've been there where "I FEEL LIKE I HAVE TO FEEL OVERLY ATTRACTED AND INTERESTED" just to go talk to her... I of course am finding better ways. Just talking to her is a little sign of interest. I thought I had to emotionally, physically, intellectualy show that my interest or attraction for her was greater than mine to her. That is how I'm viewing it right now how I used to think. This may be a discovering.

So, the way I am is turning into a person who approaches women as a natural part of his life. This person I'm becoming is one who constantly meets new women, gets new numbers and email addresses weekly, is very comfortable about the idea of interacting and getting fun from even an interaction that turned out a little less posible than usual. In fact, this person I'm becoming goes ROTFL when these funny situations happens. I'm waiting for weird reactions from a woman as great things to have in my mind to remind on like "do you remember that time when you said that thing and she went all wild??" kindda.

I have to make a break here and say I'm profoundly influenced by David DeAngelo's teachings. Interpret any similarity in writing as just myself following his tip of modelling successful people, and people you like and admire.

So, to the point that my mind is getting to is this one. I have the oppinion that there are 2 kinds of approach: 1. All focused on putting all your energy on it 2. Being aloof and relying on confidence, not spreading valuable self-energy and letting the other person give to you their energy. Just entering and letting them welcome our world. Relaxing.

I truly love when people got things to say...

I've found it rare in the past, but it's happening more, and I can see the pattern.

I love to let people fill in the space of the conversation and give their input

I months ago understood what it meant people needing attention. I was at this house with the kids of a coleague, and as I was throwing in some comments, I watched one of the kids say something, and the others also tried to get our attention like so needy and desperate. It wasn't even playful, it was that they needed our validation, ourselves being the authority figures and persons of high value. I can now see that and have a private joke of "I SEE YOU!!!!!". I was hanging out with a friend, and his son came in, as I perceived his son said things I KNEW he wanted to be heard like I'M HERE!!!!!! HELLO!!!.... so I came up with saying "I SEE YOU!!!" and pointing at him joyfully.

Anyways, the reason I'm putting this anecdote here is it probably relates to the approach... from the 2 types of approach Number 1 approach is like "CAN YOU SEE ME??? HELLO???" all doubtful and seeking validation.

Number 2 approach is like "hello you, i can see you, of course you can see me, if you are secure enough to talk to me great"

i'm laughing and relaxed anyways. I have enough control that I am relaxed the whole time...

Now, with this approach she'll probably go like "CAN YOU SEE ME?" and I'll be like "it's blurry" or something like that :-P If she's a real woman then we'll have fun... big time!

Why would I be nervous with ANYONE? Crazy... :-S... the single thought of being nervous just makes me laugh