What's the journey? To Enjoy it!

Buenos días!

Son las 5.07 AM acabo de llegar a casa luego de... a ver...

Cuando conte la hora eran las 10.00 PM

Si supieran que tiempo atras consumir tanto tiempo era un asunto diferente

Antes de entrar, el sonido estaba un poco "que no se entendía"

Estaba tocando la artista "FEDORA"...

Interesante... cuando hicieron su "Rutina de Baile" quedé loco, y me di cuenta de que ese tipo de cosas probablemente con el tiempo causaran el impacto que buscan. Es cuestion de que ellos agarren mayor tarima.

Su voz me parecio bien... más no puedo decir por no haber detallado más de ellos

Luego tocó "El Gran Circo Babilón"...

Me provocaron un poco bailar. ME gustó la energía.

Luego... según parece, tocó "2more" con música electronica. Tocaron por mucho tiempo y la gente se movía... aunque la propuesta me pareció extraña... no se si es que pusieron música de cd y ya...

Llego "el esperado" Sergent García (Sargento García). No sentí su música.

Tocaron MUCHíSIMO tiempo.

LA gente salta que salta.

Yo no. Como 3 veces decían "Quieren más"... y la gente Síiiiiiiiiii...

Ah y no eran el último acto.

Estoy claro en que ellos no tocarán más por Venezuela. Irrespetando las otras 2 bandas, que por cierto las considero mejores y punto: God's New Version y Represión.

Ok, recuerdan que cuanto tocó Sargento García todos estaban saltando y Yo No.

Inviertan los papeles.

Y por supuesto estabamos los fans hardcore que los fuimos a apoyar. LA gente respetó al grupo.

Le diría a Sargento García como dice DJ Trece: "No quiero criticones, raperos con tacones", "Cuerda de merengueros, no se la den de perros, primero regueton y ahora hip-hoperos?"... Nada originales los "Importados"

De veras que la música nacional es mejor

Te puedes "conectar" más...

Sí que me tripie a GNV!!

Luego vi a Represión y estaban OK, headbangin' un poco y después nos fuimos yo y mi clique

Por ahora segun he preguntado, no hay manera de enterarse de eventos musicales por internet...

Sugerencias? se me ocurre ir a preguntar en el roxy y en la mega para que me tengan informado de cualquier novedad.

Bueno, tambien pude saltar un poco con S.G. estaba haciendo como si estuviese saltando cuerdas (me gusto, quedé en tremenda forma física LOL)

Dicen "PROBALA CHIQUI PROBALA" Yo digo "QUITALA CHIQUI QUITALA"... yuck a que se supone que debe saber la p*ps* tw*st?

"The brain is the biggest muscle in the body"

-- Matt Furey

This is an insteresting article I read... I wrote an earlier post about behaviors too. I found this on: http://seductiondigest.com/node/218

Six Beta Male Behaviors to Avoid
Submitted by Minger on Tue, 2005-02-22 12:21. article | XY

Psychologically, humans are wired to attach more weight to negative information about someone than they do to positive info. That's why you can be having a great conversation with someone, and then all of a sudden you change your mind about them when they tell you in all seriousness that they were captured by a UFO. It didn't matter that for the past half hour, the person was displaying intellect and being articulate. You've now labeled them as a weirdo based on that one thing.

So it's massively important to avoid negative behaviors that are characteristic of low status males.

1. Approval seeking with your sentences such as ending them with phrases like "isn't it" or "right" should come out only sparingly in your conversation. Otherwise you sound weak willed. Right?

2. Trying to dominate. Instead just do it. Have a stronger psychological reality and mindset than anyone else. Assume people are there to follow you, because you are the shit. So, because of this assumption, of course you can ask people politely to do what you want them to do, rather than bossing them around. (It's interesting to observe military generals, who, despite what you see in movies such as Patton, are usually very polite when they get subordinates to do things.)

3. Being belligerent, either with women or with other men. The alpha male is able to stay calm under pressure and walk away when he needs to. Starting a fight is a sign that you're a man with low status. It also goes without saying that fighting in order to attract the affections of a woman is the ultimate form of approval seeking, which lowers your attractiveness.

4. Talking about what the other person wants to discuss, even if you find it boring. The alpha male only talks about what he wants to. Watch any alpha male in action (e.g., CEOs and politicians) and you will observe this phenomenon. When an alpha male is bored by someone, he won't hesitate to show his disinterest. Instead he'll look away and otherwise display his disregard.

Basically, don't give people your attention until they've earned it.

5. Trying to prove that you're smarter than the person you're talking to. When you look at leaders in corporate boardrooms or governor's mansions, you find that the best leaders are secure enough in themselves that they can listen to those who are more expert than they are.

6. Checking out every pretty girl you see. A man who's getting massively laid sees no point in doing this, so you too should communicate that you have no point either. As you stop being impressed by the hot bodies around you, watch the difference in reactions that you get from women. Watch how they start checking you out and wanting to prove themselves to you, rather than the other way around as it is with most guys.

Alpha males assume leadership-by this I mean that they act as if they are a natural leader in their setting. Therefore they don't care much about what others think. They do their own thing and don't seek approval. However, at the same time, they also offer a benefit to those who follow them, whether it's social status, excitement, or stimulating conversation.

Other people submit to the alpha's reality because either they want to (since alpha males talk about interesting topics) or because everyone else is paying attention to the alpha male.

The alpha male conversation style is interesting. Why is this? Easy! Because his conversational topics are things that he finds fascinating, and other people are sucked into his reality, so as a consequence they find them interesting too.

What's the easiest way to have stuff to talk about? It's simple. Have an exciting, well-balanced life, and you will naturally exude attractiveness to women. Keep busy with work, your social life, activities, and self-improvement. Don't just sit around playing video games. Go skydiving, take dance lessons, call an old friend and hang out with them. Basically, when your life is fun and interesting, you have tons of things to talk about with women.

And when you talk to women, lead the conversation. Captivate her attention.

As you work on your behaviors, you will also work on adopting the mindset of an alpha male. The first thing I notice that all alpha males have in common is that they assume people will follow their lead. They're not bossy.

Bossiness can quickly backfire because few people like to be ordered around. So do your thing and be passionate about it, and people will be drawn into your reality. Just act as if people will follow you, and believe that they will, and you'll find that they will want to adhere to your wishes.

This brings up an important point. Don't observe reality and then adjust yourself to it. Instead create your own reality. This means act as if events are the way you would like them to be.

Act as if you are a catch for any woman. Act as if pussy is no big deal to you, since it's not a big deal to men who get laid all the time. (Although you may not have much sex, if any, you still want to model the mindset of men who do.) Act as if all your manly desires are perfectly natural. Certainly you have no reason to apologize for or cover up your sex drive the way nice guys do!

Act as if you're not affected that much by what a woman thinks, since what youthink is a lot more important. Paradoxically, women will respect you a lot more for this.

A lot of guys get caught up in the trap of constantly wondering what a woman is thinking. "Gee, when she rubs her glass in response to me telling her a joke, does that mean she likes me?"* [* FYI, when a woman rubs a glass sensually, that is indeed an attraction signal.] Instead just realize that there's a horny, primal woman within her who wants to have mad, passionate sex with you. Just be an attractive guy, and relax and give her a chance to become attracted to you. If she doesn't accept the gift of your companionship, then that's her loss.

Be optimistic. Ever notice how the best athletes such as Deion Sanders, Michael Jordan, and Tiger Woods know that they will do well? Success comes from confidence. Assume you will succeed, and that increases the odds that you will. Assume that you are irresistible to women.

Be powerful and resolute. But at the same time, be natural and fun. Be a bit of a bad boy. Have a devilish smile on your face if you want. You're an exciting man who women should want.

Do what you please in life. Be true to your emotions. If you don't want to do something, then don't. Be honest with yourself.

What does this mean? If you want to give a homeless man some change, then do it. If you want to help an old lady across the street, then go for it. If you want to open doors for your girlfriend, do it. Just don't feel like you have to do any of those things because it's expected of you. Do things because you want to do them.

In the end, when you become an alpha male, the man who is true to himself, you will experience the happiest time of your life. Getting laid will just be an after effect.

"Success is the progressive realization of a worthy ideal."
--Earl Nightingale

Hello...

By browsing www.seductiondigest.com I found an article about 6 male beta behaviors to avoid...

Today I went out for a walk...

The thing is I was thinking about one of those concepts that goes something like this: "If you are massively getting laid, then you wouldn't be staring at any woman, because of the abundance you live in"...

Well... I got to see one girl sitting alone, I was wondering ¿Do I like this girl? She looked at me too... I said to myself "Yes"... then kept on walking...

The thing is I've noticed I say things outloud after I see a good looking girl...

Things like: "Damn!!"... Today I said "Yes she looks good..."

There's something to attraction sometimes... it's like you hate the person a little bit, that creates tension, but you also feel attracted to her...

What I want to do anytime is to not say fluff to myself outloud, no, none of that stuff. Why? First of all I'm interested about increasing my confidence... this correction on behavior surely will help... at least that's what my actual thoughts are...

'till next time,

living the journey,

terrelite

Appreciating Our Past

It is easy to be negative about past mistakes and unhappiness. But it is much more healing to look at ourselves and our past in the light of experience, acceptance, and growth.

Our past is a series of lessons that advance us to higher levels of living and loving. The relationships we entered, stayed in, or ended taught us necessary lessons.

Some of us have emerged from the most painful circumstances with strong insights about who we are and what we want. Our mistakes? Necessary. Our frustrations, failures, and sometimes stumbling attempts at growth and progress? Necessary too. Each step of the way, we learned. We went through exactly the experiences we need to, to become who we are today. Each step of the way, we progressed. Is our past a mistake? No. The only mistake we can make is mistaking that for the truth.

Today, God, help me let go of negative thoughts I may be harboring about my past circumstances or relationships. I can accept, with gratitude, all that has brought me to today.

Source: http://www.indianchild.com/thoughts_for_life.htm

"Y sobre la masturbación mental, si es masturbación ¿no eyaculará en algún momento? es decir, las cosas se van a concretar" - TerreLite

Counter-Strike un juego de actitud

En ESEA han escrito un articulo de análisis bastante interesante y con el cual muchos aquellos relacionados con Cstrike se pueden sentir identificados. Counter-Strike un juego de Actitud. ¿Que opinas de esto?. cA.com te trae este articulo en español... ¿Que hace a un equipo ser un Buen equipo? Muchas organizaciones han tratado de averiguar esto. ¿Son los grandes nombres los que siempre tienen un buen desempeño en los torneos o son los jugadores desconocidos que nadie espera que lo hagan bien?. Existen y siempre existirán equipos que estarán conformados por grandes nombres, y que crearan cierta expectativa. Pero por otra parte siempre habrán equipos que nadie espera que lo hagan bien, pero terminan convirtiéndose en unos de los mejores. Y todo esto tiene que ver con la actitud. Por ejemplo echemos un vistazo a Ninjas in Pyjamas (No me gusta juzgar pero ellos son el ejemplo perfecto). Un equipo que probablemente contaba con los nombres mas grandes de la escena del Counter-Strike, incluyendo el nombre del equipo. Eran conocidos por ser invencibles y muchos predecían que este equipo rara vez perdía un evento. Pero está gran expectativa sería su caída. La expectativa que rodeaba a Ninjas in Pyjamas cambio sus actitudes. Todos creían que eran los mejores, todos creían que eran invencibles y todos creían que eran indetenibles. Esto eventualmente cambio sus formas de pensar hasta que su actitud llego a ser "Somos los mejores, para que tendríamos que practicar tanto". Creanlo o no, eso era lo que Ninjas in Pyjamas estaban pensando. En una entrevista reciente Heaton comentó al mundo que el equipo no tenia la actitud adecuada para practicar lo suficientemente fuerte para ser los mejores del mundo. A ciencia cierta todo el mundo suponía que ellos ganarían cualquier evento, ¿no?. Entonces, ¿como NiP pensaba ganar a equipos como CoL cuyo roster está conformado por 5 jugadores con las mejores actitudes en el juego? La realidad es que un equipo como CoL quiere practicar, quieren trabajar duro y lo mas importante, quieren ganar. Esta es la razón por la cual CoL es uno de los mejores equipos actualmente. Trabajan muy duro y QUIEREN trabajar duro. fRoD es uno de los jugadores con mejor ética de trabajo que he visto, y actualmente es reconocido como uno de los mejores jugadores del mundo. ¿Coincidencia? Todo lo que necesitas para ser el mejor es trabajar en tu actitud. No puedes esperar que un equipo haga un buen trabajo si las actitudes de sus integrantes no son las correctas. Una buena actitud permite a los jugadores a trabajar en equipo, arreglar errores, mantener la calma y no molestarse cuando algo sale mal. No se necesitan los mejores jugadores para ganar. Ni siquiera se necesitan jugadores increíbles para ganar. Lo que si se necesita es una buena actitud en el juego. El ganar requiere desearlo, tienes que querer ganar y tienes que querer trabajar duro para ganar. Cientos de equipos allá afuera están tratando de probar que son los mejores, y de estos equipos es que veremos surgir los nuevos grandes nombres del Counter-Strike. ¿Alguien recuerda el CDT? ¿Canadian Dream Team?. "Los mejores" jugadores de Canada (Shag, Steel, revenge, wiseguy). Crearon un Pug con los mejores jugadores de Canada para ganar WCG e ir a las finales en Korea (2003). Fueron vencidos bastante fácil. Conflictos entre Shag y Steel generaron una muy mala actitud que se expandió a todo el equipo. Lo que la gente debe entender es que un jugador es solamente tan bueno como su equipo. Cinco personas forman un equipo. Version en Ingles - ESEA Ciberatletas.com

On Thundercat's Seduction Lair, Alessandro posted this interesting response...

> When you take this workshop, you
> WILL make massive progress on your
> three nights, and you will break
> new ground and achieve stuff
> you've never achieved before. But
> it's coming from the wrong place.
> It's coming from "I just met
> Tyler! wow!" or "I just took a
> workshop... so I MUST be good and
> that girl over there MUST like me."

Hi Dan :-)

You have posted a well reasoned and well thought out account of your situation and you obviously have no axes to grind, etc. What you are describing makes a lot of sense; I don't speak for RSD and I don't even know the guys personaly, other than seeing them in ASF, but I will try to give you my two Zimbabwean cents:

YOU NEED TO FIND YOUR OWN SOURCE OF CONFIDENCE AND OPTIMISM.

This game is a bitch sometimes, but you only realize that when you have a long sequence of fuck ups and/or when some chick totally shits on you. With time, your confidence will go down and your results deteriorate.

What you need to do is: 1) Work on feeling genuinly comfortable with yourself; don't build your self-worth on how many women you're with or wether you're getting some or not. 2) Find something that makes you feel cool.

For #1 I had no problem with it, I always felt great about myself. Now for #2 I did many things, I hope you too can benefit from them:

1) I devided my gaming universe to two; I would go out clubbing and approach cool hot club chicks just for the sake of training and sharpening my claws, I would push each interaction as far as it goes, I would try kino, quick kiss, weird lines, weird body language like severe back turns, I would try out all the shit I read in ASF, after I crashed and burned and felt "good", I would turn to AFC chicks in daytime game and see my results SHINE. Go ahead, do that. Practice on hotties at night, then come back to AFC chicks. People say HBs and normal chicks require different game .. BULLSHIT. It's all about being cocky and funny, coming up with crazy shit to say, being cool, being able to contribute to the conversation and show her new interesting stuff, etc.

2) STOP WINGING. Going out with other ASFers, specially if they're beginers or timid or have no game .. SUCKS. You two, or three, or four, will go out and just nag at each other like the Marge Simpson sisters. There is no better way to amplify negative self image than to join others in the same boat. It's OK to hang out, talk, exchange ideas, as long as you know that you're not "together" and each of you is free to approach whatever chick he wants and take off with her anytime. Then, your association is more like a chat during a cigratte break, rather than a support group.

3) Constantly get back to the basics. Keep in mind it's about FUCKING, not "talking" or "gaming" or "ingaging". Sometimes primitive GM-based cavemaning is all it takes. Sometimes the girl just wants to be cared for and treated nicely and kindly; not all chicks give it up because they're negged and called a powerpuff girl.

4) Mercilessly borrow, steal, copy, and cajole ideas from others (I didn't say "buy" because I never paid for shit) There is no one great method, no silver bullet, they all work sometimes and don't other times. SS offers the best rapport based game, EVing is what romance is made of. MM has the best skills for clubbing, I am not so sure of Mystery later systems like the 8-step programme. The RSD guys, you know, have serious game, you would be stupid to dismiss the tome of knowledge put out by TD; off the top of my head; the 25-Points, Stealing Horny Chicks, How to Really PU, and Playing Hard to Get are stuff I have read, reread, and fucking changed my life. I met Juggler and basically jump started my social skills, I don't even think I knew how to be "normal" before meeting juggler, I was into show off and fast cars, I used to stand at street corners and wink at girls, and all sorts of weird shit.

Having said that, none of it is religion. Be prepared to discover some technique USELESS and start using another. You will find about sarging venues and optimum times for going out; you're in D.C. so I can share some stuff with you, etc.

My point is that none of this stuff is perfect and you will have to adapt it to yourself. PU requires a change in personality, but only you know to which extent is this change necessary. You can go as primitive and natural as you want and stick to stuff by Gunwitch, for example, or you can aim for gaming entire clubs and mastering the hot spots of the night life, then you would probably combine stuff by Mystery and TD, etc.

Posted by: Alessandro | June 4, 2005 08:19 PM

http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2005/06/rsd_lawsuit.html#comments

The most impactful things for me were:

"YOU NEED TO FIND YOUR OWN SOURCE OF CONFIDENCE AND OPTIMISM."

Later I've realized that I've become an Optimist... and you know what? everyday this is increasing! I'm constantly working on that area... becoming more positive, and there are puzzles for me that are beginning to be solved. It's very important for me to discover the sources of confidence and optimism, be it certain authors, like Alessandro, certain tapes, stuff that works for me, and so on...

"What you need to do is: 1) Work on feeling genuinly comfortable with yourself; don't build your self-worth on how many women you're with or wether you're getting some or not. 2) Find something that makes you feel cool."

I'm realizing that I'm becoming more and more comfortable with myself...

A point I will and am internalizing is "not building my self-worth on how many women I'm with or whether I'm getting some or not"... how could I get this concept? What could help me do that? That Matt Furey quote about approval is very key to this... If I were to build my self-worth on how many women I'm with or if I'm getting some or not is a seeking approval mechanism by itself...

Well... about number 2... I won't tell ;-)

"You’ll never satisfy others, so stick to yourself"

Matt Furey

More Responsibility = More Power