Monday, April 25, 2005
to everyone else it does not matter if you improve, succeed, lose, win the lottery....
I have to put this thought out so it gets more solid in my life...
Let's start with family. If you become rich, it does not matter, they might be happy for you that you got rich, but jealous 'cause they aren't; or they will be suspicious like 'where did you get that money?'. SOOoooooo thinking that anybody will approve you if you do X thing is a lost quest, BECAUSE they will have SOMETHING ELSE for you to do!!!
Friends? Well, if you go to China and travel around the world, it won't matter to them anyways, they take you as you are. If you stay at home all the time, it won't matter, they're your friends, you shouldn't be thinking what anybody will think of you if you accomplish X thing, or if you DO NOT accomplish anything AT ALL!
I'm gonna quote Vince Vaugh (Peter La Fleur) from the movie Dodgeball:
Peter La Fleur: I found that if you have a goal, that you might not reach it. But if you don't have one, then you are never disappointed. And I gotta tell ya... it feels phenomenal.
Or Donal Logue (Dex) from the movie The Tao of Steve:
Dex: Doing stuff is overrated. Like Hitler. He did a lot. But don't we all wish he woulda just stayed home and gotten stoned?
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Think about it. You parents, they will support you when you are down, and evenly when you're up. The same as with people who DO like you.
So, I can do whatever I want, people know I'm always on to something, they find it weird when I'm not. They would love me anyways if I don't get back to college and get a degree on Languages. Come on, if I do anything it's gotta, it's gonna be for me, because I enjoy it and I decided to do it to complement myself.
I agree, achieving stuff is overrated.
I have a family member who I have now come to realized he does accept me. I don't need to go do anything for him to feel respect for me, he already does; what I've noticed is he does what he can to see me doing something for my life, more about the economy, ya know?
Let's start with family. If you become rich, it does not matter, they might be happy for you that you got rich, but jealous 'cause they aren't; or they will be suspicious like 'where did you get that money?'. SOOoooooo thinking that anybody will approve you if you do X thing is a lost quest, BECAUSE they will have SOMETHING ELSE for you to do!!!
Friends? Well, if you go to China and travel around the world, it won't matter to them anyways, they take you as you are. If you stay at home all the time, it won't matter, they're your friends, you shouldn't be thinking what anybody will think of you if you accomplish X thing, or if you DO NOT accomplish anything AT ALL!
I'm gonna quote Vince Vaugh (Peter La Fleur) from the movie Dodgeball:
Peter La Fleur: I found that if you have a goal, that you might not reach it. But if you don't have one, then you are never disappointed. And I gotta tell ya... it feels phenomenal.
Or Donal Logue (Dex) from the movie The Tao of Steve:
Dex: Doing stuff is overrated. Like Hitler. He did a lot. But don't we all wish he woulda just stayed home and gotten stoned?
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Think about it. You parents, they will support you when you are down, and evenly when you're up. The same as with people who DO like you.
So, I can do whatever I want, people know I'm always on to something, they find it weird when I'm not. They would love me anyways if I don't get back to college and get a degree on Languages. Come on, if I do anything it's gotta, it's gonna be for me, because I enjoy it and I decided to do it to complement myself.
I agree, achieving stuff is overrated.
I have a family member who I have now come to realized he does accept me. I don't need to go do anything for him to feel respect for me, he already does; what I've noticed is he does what he can to see me doing something for my life, more about the economy, ya know?
# posted by TerreLite : 7:32 AM
