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(Attraction) The fastest way to learn by Energetic
The fastest way to learn
Posted by *EnergetiC* on *October 26, 2004, 2:24 am*
in *Thoughts* ( *a PUA's life*)
Another repost from mASF...
Ok, think back on your high school or college years. Maybe you're still
in them, even better.
What were the classes you did best in, the classes you scored the
highest grades with the least effort? For me, and I'm guessing for you
too, those were the classed that I simply liked doing, the classes I
enjoyed. I've never enjoyed math. I sucked at math. Not so much because
I can't DO math, later on I found out that I actually have some talent
for it, but because I didn't LIKE doing it.
Ok, think back on your high school or college years. Maybe you're
still in them, even better.
What were the classes you did best in, the classes you scored the
highest grades with the least effort? For me, and I'm guessing
for you too, those were the classed that I simply liked doing,
the classes I enjoyed. I've never enjoyed math. I sucked at math.
Not so much because I can't DO math, later on I found out that I
actually have some talent for it, but because I didn't LIKE doing
it. The classes bored me, I had a hard time staying focused and I
didn't do my homework for it. Whenever I got home and wanted to
do my math homework, I'd think back on the classes and would
already feel bored even before I started the homework.
I did great in history-classes though. I loved history. All the
great stories, the discussions on how history affects the
present. I always did my history homework, I know that, but I can
hardly remember ever doing it. That's because it wasn't a 'chore'
to me. I liked doing it.
My math grades sucked. My history grades were always 8's or
higher. In retrospect I can do math as well as history, if I'd
spend the same amount of time on it, with the same focus and
concentration.
So. What made me do so much better at history than at math? One
simple thing: I LOVED IT. I loved doing it, and therefor I had no
trouble staying focused, doing what I had to do to make it work.
The last couple of days I had some talks on IRC with people that
made me think, and then I encountered the same stuff in posts on
mASF (often not directly written, but u can read it between the
lines); some people are not enjoying it. They see sarging and
gaming as a chore, as something they'd rather not do, but must do
because they want to gain skill. Just like I did my math even
though I hated it, because I needed my diploma.
And when you go at it with that attitude, it becomes 10 times as
hard. You will lose focus and motivation, you won't be able to
concentrate on what you need to do and it will simply NOT BE
FUN.
In the past week I finished mt life-plan / mission statement, I
got to watch Future and Hoobie's video's, I got my questions
answered by a guru on live radio, I went sarging with a wing, had
the best time ever and massively improved on the goals I had set
for myself. But the móst important: I am LOVING it! It's the time
of my life. I feel better than ever and that's what makes this so
easy. It doesn't feel like I'm putting an effort into all this.
And it goes way beyond just PUA-stuff. Of course I have to work,
I have to study, I have to clean my house... but when I work, I
think about how getting money will help me on my road to becoming
more skilled with women, how I will be able to afford a nicer
place and the clothes I wanna wear when I go sarging. Even though
I have a really shitty job, I'm loving it for what it will do for
me.
When I study, even when it's a subject I find boring, I still
love it, because it helps me get the diploma, which will get me a
better job, which will help me with my goals... I'm starting to
love every part of my life and that makes it SO much easier to
stay focused, it's almost effortless.
So, when you find yourself thinking of sarging as a 'job' that
has to be done, it might be time to reflect on your goals, on
your inner game, on how to get back the joy in your game (and
maybe your whole life!).
-EC-
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www.energetic.tk
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Posted by *EnergetiC* on *October 26, 2004, 2:24 am*
in *Thoughts* ( *a PUA's life*)
Another repost from mASF...
Ok, think back on your high school or college years. Maybe you're still
in them, even better.
What were the classes you did best in, the classes you scored the
highest grades with the least effort? For me, and I'm guessing for you
too, those were the classed that I simply liked doing, the classes I
enjoyed. I've never enjoyed math. I sucked at math. Not so much because
I can't DO math, later on I found out that I actually have some talent
for it, but because I didn't LIKE doing it.
Ok, think back on your high school or college years. Maybe you're
still in them, even better.
What were the classes you did best in, the classes you scored the
highest grades with the least effort? For me, and I'm guessing
for you too, those were the classed that I simply liked doing,
the classes I enjoyed. I've never enjoyed math. I sucked at math.
Not so much because I can't DO math, later on I found out that I
actually have some talent for it, but because I didn't LIKE doing
it. The classes bored me, I had a hard time staying focused and I
didn't do my homework for it. Whenever I got home and wanted to
do my math homework, I'd think back on the classes and would
already feel bored even before I started the homework.
I did great in history-classes though. I loved history. All the
great stories, the discussions on how history affects the
present. I always did my history homework, I know that, but I can
hardly remember ever doing it. That's because it wasn't a 'chore'
to me. I liked doing it.
My math grades sucked. My history grades were always 8's or
higher. In retrospect I can do math as well as history, if I'd
spend the same amount of time on it, with the same focus and
concentration.
So. What made me do so much better at history than at math? One
simple thing: I LOVED IT. I loved doing it, and therefor I had no
trouble staying focused, doing what I had to do to make it work.
The last couple of days I had some talks on IRC with people that
made me think, and then I encountered the same stuff in posts on
mASF (often not directly written, but u can read it between the
lines); some people are not enjoying it. They see sarging and
gaming as a chore, as something they'd rather not do, but must do
because they want to gain skill. Just like I did my math even
though I hated it, because I needed my diploma.
And when you go at it with that attitude, it becomes 10 times as
hard. You will lose focus and motivation, you won't be able to
concentrate on what you need to do and it will simply NOT BE
FUN.
In the past week I finished mt life-plan / mission statement, I
got to watch Future and Hoobie's video's, I got my questions
answered by a guru on live radio, I went sarging with a wing, had
the best time ever and massively improved on the goals I had set
for myself. But the móst important: I am LOVING it! It's the time
of my life. I feel better than ever and that's what makes this so
easy. It doesn't feel like I'm putting an effort into all this.
And it goes way beyond just PUA-stuff. Of course I have to work,
I have to study, I have to clean my house... but when I work, I
think about how getting money will help me on my road to becoming
more skilled with women, how I will be able to afford a nicer
place and the clothes I wanna wear when I go sarging. Even though
I have a really shitty job, I'm loving it for what it will do for
me.
When I study, even when it's a subject I find boring, I still
love it, because it helps me get the diploma, which will get me a
better job, which will help me with my goals... I'm starting to
love every part of my life and that makes it SO much easier to
stay focused, it's almost effortless.
So, when you find yourself thinking of sarging as a 'job' that
has to be done, it might be time to reflect on your goals, on
your inner game, on how to get back the joy in your game (and
maybe your whole life!).
-EC-
Post from : http://whuzz.demon.nl/energetic/blog/index.php
www.energetic.tk
Printed from : http://whuzz.demon.nl/energetic/blog/index.php?id=5
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