Friday, May 27, 2005
(Attraction) Social Contribution: A Frame For Life
Well... This post is about ideas hitting my brain... about men and women... about approaches from men to women...
I just recently that women have to daily deal with competition from other women... be it the workplace, the clubs, at home... everywhere!
So, because of this... I'd say they're more TRAINED... they're constantly rehearsing. For example, I have a friend who happens to be a woman... and I remember the days when I just accusing of being very 'coquette'... and I pointed out the fact the she just can't help herself from accidentally or purposedly FLIRTING!... of course she denied it at first and told me why people call her on being a 'coquette'... she even told me how she went shopping with her mom, and her mom was like "Girl, would you PLEASE stop flirting so HARDCORE?"
After that conversation, I kept calling her on being 'so flirtatious'... but she didn't define herself as a 'coquette'... I should ask her something like "Do you define yourself as a 'coquette'?" to get rid of that interrogant...
I have no idea who told me this: "women are naturally flirtatious"... yea, I think it was a mature woman who clearly admited that fact...
How about US men? Well... I'm not sure... BUT I think we need to conciously understand these facts, and begin some "lifting" on the gym of "attraction", specially "flirting"...
I think one of the humanity's purpose is to serve. People have the purpose of giving a Social Contribution to this world... to impact someone's life... to give DIRECTIONS... to MAKE THINGS happen... to help others REACH NEW LEVELS OF KNOWLEDGE... provide EXPERIENCE... MOTIVATE... Men and Women... BOTH
If a man approaches a woman... the woman's purpose is to give this man a DIRECTION for him to know what he's doing RIGHT... to MAKE A NEW LOVE happen... to help him UNDERSTAND the skills of "attraction", "comfort" and "flirting", providing him EXPERIENCE to MOTIVATE him keep going on his own path he's chosen or chosing...
Two main benefits for the woman... whether this man is skilled or about to become skilled... HE provides HER: EXPERIENCE... she's also filling her life purpose by doing something to serve the HUMANITY... this will help her feel more feminine... feel more appreciated and loved, and MOTIVATED!! She's sharing information, she's showing she's open to life and aware of how great her life can be if she justs OPENS HER MIND A LITTLE BIT
Women's purpose is to provide love to the whole world
I just recently that women have to daily deal with competition from other women... be it the workplace, the clubs, at home... everywhere!
So, because of this... I'd say they're more TRAINED... they're constantly rehearsing. For example, I have a friend who happens to be a woman... and I remember the days when I just accusing of being very 'coquette'... and I pointed out the fact the she just can't help herself from accidentally or purposedly FLIRTING!... of course she denied it at first and told me why people call her on being a 'coquette'... she even told me how she went shopping with her mom, and her mom was like "Girl, would you PLEASE stop flirting so HARDCORE?"
After that conversation, I kept calling her on being 'so flirtatious'... but she didn't define herself as a 'coquette'... I should ask her something like "Do you define yourself as a 'coquette'?" to get rid of that interrogant...
I have no idea who told me this: "women are naturally flirtatious"... yea, I think it was a mature woman who clearly admited that fact...
How about US men? Well... I'm not sure... BUT I think we need to conciously understand these facts, and begin some "lifting" on the gym of "attraction", specially "flirting"...
I think one of the humanity's purpose is to serve. People have the purpose of giving a Social Contribution to this world... to impact someone's life... to give DIRECTIONS... to MAKE THINGS happen... to help others REACH NEW LEVELS OF KNOWLEDGE... provide EXPERIENCE... MOTIVATE... Men and Women... BOTH
If a man approaches a woman... the woman's purpose is to give this man a DIRECTION for him to know what he's doing RIGHT... to MAKE A NEW LOVE happen... to help him UNDERSTAND the skills of "attraction", "comfort" and "flirting", providing him EXPERIENCE to MOTIVATE him keep going on his own path he's chosen or chosing...
Two main benefits for the woman... whether this man is skilled or about to become skilled... HE provides HER: EXPERIENCE... she's also filling her life purpose by doing something to serve the HUMANITY... this will help her feel more feminine... feel more appreciated and loved, and MOTIVATED!! She's sharing information, she's showing she's open to life and aware of how great her life can be if she justs OPENS HER MIND A LITTLE BIT
Women's purpose is to provide love to the whole world
# posted by TerreLite : 7:49 AM
